Cosmos of Light
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My boyfriend just came home from work and he told me that he was offered a promotion and with that a relocation/transfer for it. I am pretty excited that he is moving up the ladder and making a name for himself, but where he would be relocated would be all the way to Vermont.
I want him to go because it would mean better pay and a chance to move, which he has been wanting to do for a long while. Plus he could keep moving up in his work field.
The thing that has me scared is that he asked if I will move with him. I love him, I want to be with him for the rest of our lives… the only thing is, I would be moving away from all the many great friends I have made, and I would be leaving behind family. He knows that I am really tight with my family and understands if I want to stay behind, but at the same time I could see the fear and hurt in his eyes just thinking about me making that choice.
I told him I have to really think about it. Right now I’m really leaning on going with him, as I know me and my family will always be family and that nothing can tear apart how much we love each other and how close we are. Him leaving alone, would mean the risk of us no longer being together and that scares me. We have been together for over five years and I know that him and I are meant to be.
I need to really think about this more because I would be up and leaving home, my schooling and my job. I would have to start from scratch at a new job, I would have to try and get all my credits transferred and all that fun shit.
Luckily he does not have to relocate for a few months until after my finals are over, as he requested, just in case I choose to go.